Write Your Story
Who gets to tell their story? Laws and rights may dictate what is written in history books and taught in schools, but they do not change the untold stories and hidden truths behind all the bold loudness. My original after-school club was called "Why I'm So Loud." As a woman, I am not loud, but I felt like the black females in the halls fighting and acting out just wanted to be seen.
One of my earliest memories was when my uncle came into my house and pushed me aside to go into our refrigerator. I remember saying to him, "Who do you think you are? Coming into my home, going in our refrigerator without showing me any respect." My mother was shocked; so was my father. That moment marked where my loudness began.
I laughed recently in Walmart because it's tax time. You see so many people shopping or just buying what they need; they are so happy. I saw an African American woman who paid for an older white woman's items because she couldn't afford them herself. Black people love to give away money; in one sense you can say it's our downfall—we do not know how to have money—but in a larger sense we are so used to having a lack or going without that when we do have money we just want to give it all away just to feel like we can.
The poverty line is no lie; numbers do not lie. Our hard work has not gone unseen because generationally and systematically our success is sabotaged—crack cocaine in our neighborhoods, sharecropping slavery—kill DEI or let DEI go too far; we are always kicked aside.
Another powerful story comes from my time volunteering at a local shelter. I met a young man named Marcus who had been in and out of the foster care system his entire life. Despite the hardships he faced, Marcus had a dream of becoming a chef. He would often cook meals for the other residents, using whatever ingredients he could find. His passion and determination were inspiring. Marcus's story is a testament to the resilience and strength that many people possess, even in the face of adversity.
In another instance, I remember a community event where we invited local artists to share their work. One artist, a woman named Lisa, shared a series of paintings that depicted her journey through depression and recovery. Her art was raw and emotional, capturing the highs and lows of her experience. Lisa's willingness to share her story through her art helped others in the community feel less alone in their struggles.
These stories, like many others, highlight the importance of giving people the opportunity to share their experiences. When we write our stories, we not only validate our own experiences but also create connections with others who may have similar experiences.
What is Love to Me as an African American?
What is love to me as an African American? How many times have I felt it? Only then can I know how to give it. How many times have I lived in abundance? How many stories do I hear from my ancestors talking of this love and abundance?
These questions are crucial in understanding our experiences and the legacy we carry. Love and abundance are not just abstract concepts; they are lived experiences that shape our identities and our communities. By reflecting on these questions, we can better appreciate the depth of our heritage and the strength of our connections.
Who Writes My Story?
Who writes my story, and how does that affect all the generations of the past and those to come? This is why Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) is so important. When we take control of our narratives, we honor our ancestors and pave the way for future generations. Our stories are powerful tools for change, fostering understanding and empathy across different backgrounds. By embracing DEI, we ensure that every voice is heard and valued, creating a more inclusive and compassionate world.
Write Your Wrong
As part of our blog series, "Write Your Wrong," we encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and share your stories. By writing your wrongs, you can transform past challenges into powerful narratives that inspire and connect with others. This process not only helps in personal healing but also contributes to a collective understanding and empathy within our community.
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